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Refugees and Immigrants Have Different Experiences, by Beryl Cheal, © 2001

Refugees and immigrants come to us with different background experiences. As programs for young children plan to serve children from other countries they should consider the following:

Refugees:
Leave their homes because of perceived or actual violence.
Leave with minimal belongings, sometimes with only the clothes they are wearing.
Do not plan to leave. The decision can be very sudden.
Often do not have time to say goodbye to those close to them.
Usually do not want to leave.
Leave their known social systems.
Often experience violence during flight and sometimes participate in it.
May lose family members during flight, by getting lost, not able to keep up with the rest of the group, or die during flight.
If family members die, there is usually no opportunity to give them a proper burial. They are forced to leave the bodies along the route.
Some family members may decide not to join in flight, stay home and may not be seen again.
May not have sufficient food during flight.
Experience the shifting status of borders which creates an emotional roller coaster, raising hopes of finding a place of refuge and getting those hopes dashed.
Arrive in a place where they may not be wanted and become very vulnerable to anything the hosts want to do with them.
Arrive in a place where the social systems may be different than what they left.
Experience violence because of over crowded refugee camps.
Usually do not know what is going to happen to them or their families.
Experience various health problems with little if any medical attention available.
Become suspicious of everyone for they do not know who to trust.
Lack a system of communication, so rumors abound. It is often difficult to tell what is true.
Can't maintain ties with the home country for social or financial support.
Frequently come with fewer transferable skills (especially those who come in later waves).
Are not apt to have a well-established, stable community of compatriots to provide support when they come to the U.S.

Immigrants
Have made a considered decision to leave their home and settle in another country.
Plan their exit from home.
Make arrangements for orderly transportation to their chosen place of residence.
Pack those belongings they will be taking with them, shipping other items, and dispensing in an orderly fashion those items they will no longer use.
Have opportunities to say goodbye to family and friends.
Are welcomed to their new home by family or friends.
Have a support system in place on arrival so that they have assistance in learning how to function in this society.
May have a job waiting for them or at least usually are assisted in finding a job.
Maintain contacts with family and friends in the home country for social and economic support.
Return to the home country for visits periodically.